Dirty talk can be really fun and increase the sexual pleasure you get with your partner. But how exactly do you do it? Here are some tips on talking dirty to get you in the know.
There are a few different ways to talk dirty during sex, but don't make the mistake that you can only do this during sex, you can do it anywhere. Dirty talk increases sexual tension and when doing it before sex is a form of foreplay.
First things first, don't worry about sounding a bit cheesy, most dirty talk is! Generally speaking you are basically describing a sexual act or feeling, whether currently happening or a suggestion or just an imaginary scene or act.
One of the things you can talk about is how your partner is making you feel. Example, "Your cock/pussy is making me feel so good". Get the idea?
Another thing you can talk about is what you want to do to them, e.g. "I wanna take you from behind." Or "I want you in my mouth".
Telling them what you want them to do to you is another thing to talk about. For example, "Put your cock in my mouth", or "Go down on me and make me feel good".
You can also make a suggestion or ask a question of what to do, for example (for men to use) "Do you want me inside you?", just before you penetrate her with your penis.
Okay, so now you're getting an idea of what you can talk about. You don't have to put on a seductive voice, but can if you want. You can whisper, use a normal volume or even shout/scream.
Whether you use swear words is up to you, and how dirty your descriptions is up to you too. Always go for what you feel comfortable saying first and foremost, and make sure that if your partner is getting turned off or uncomfortable you don't continue. Some people don't like dirty talk, but many do so it's worth trying and exploring.
The best time to try dirty talk for the first time with your partner is during sex towards the orgasm when you're both really enjoying yourself, but once you've established dirty talk as something you both enjoy you can add it to your foreplay.
There's no need to feel embarressed by talking dirty, and it really can heighten the whole sexual experience and add a new dimension to it. So give it a try.
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It's sort of about keeping him guessing. He won't know if you are into him or not, but he thinks you could be. Think about playing the slot machine. It's the little wins that keep you playing in hopes of winning the jackpot.How to Make Love to a Woman
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